“Strangers become friends and friends become strangers”
Do you ever think about how you met your best friend? How you just pick this totally random stranger to be your friend?
Did you become friends at school, college, university or work? How did you know they would stick around and be your best friend for life?
It’s funny to think that you just click with a total stranger and you become best friends who share everything from who you shared your first kiss with to being bridesmaid at your wedding.
But what if one day the one person you were once close to becomes a total stranger to you? That you no longer know what is happening in their life and they no longer know what’s happening in yours.
I’ve gone through this recently, someone I thought was a really close friend with and could tell everything to has become a stranger. I no longer know what is happening with them and they no longer know what is happening with me. It’s like they’ve moved on from our friendship and chosen someone else. I’ve seen their friendship grow and it’s exactly how we used to be.
We would message all day, everyday and now we don’t really speak at all. It’s funny because when you put a message in the group chat that you are in, they say they miss you and want you back in their life but they make no effort to change things. They just carry on as if you now mean nothing to them when once they told you that your friendship meant everything to them.
I don’t have many friends to be honest, I have people I talk to but honestly I don’t have that one person that I can tell everything to so no one really knows what is going on in my life. Some days i miss having that one person I can tell everything to and other days I think maybe there is something wrong with me as to why people always leave me and act as if I don’t exist.
I am the type of person that cares about everyone that comes into my life. I will do anything and everything I can to make their day better but I guess they weren’t raised the same way because they never seem to notice when I need them.
It does and doesn’t bother me because I think that people come in to your life for a reason and they are just part of your story. Some are meant to stay and some are meant to be in your life for a little while whether it be a lesson or a blessing.